Friday, August 23, 2013

Peope talk.. and they'll keep talking!


When they start talking.. they'll never stop, so why get bothered? I've been through a lot with those low class people that have nothing else to talk about other than creatures around them.. they have no business, no job, no respect, no life.. they're worthless, lifeless, heartless.. brainless if that's even possible!





Have you ever heard a stupid rumor about you that was too funny to you because you knew the truth?
I've been there!! But what kind of a person is she or he to have the courage to make up such an ugly lie? Even if it was true.. why don't people mind their own business?
I keep asking myself those questions and I always have different answers because I don't understand them!? Are they sick? Are they jealous? Are they lifeless? OR ARE THEY JUST BORED?

We can't tell what those people are thinking unless we try it.. and no, we're not going to lower our dignity, self-esteem and pride because of those people. We know who we are even when we're laughed at, we know what we're doing and we know that we're better than them, and because we know, we should never let them bother us!

Sometimes they don't just speak behind your back, but they would come right in front of your face and say it out loud because they think they'll make "their friends" laugh (or what they call "their friends").

But here the bravest thing to do is to laugh at their faces then walk away.. ignore them.. they're not worth your time!


       they don't matter.. you matter









Build your life properly, ignore the mockery, achieve the best of any day, spend your time with people that love you, love yourself before loving others, treat yourself as a best friend, that way you'll meet good people, you'll only attract positive energy, you'll succeed, you'll be the best!


*FsF

Thursday, August 22, 2013

Resilience

I found a topic on this magazine that helped me choose a good post for my blog.. i find it a pretty good and interesting magazine..
Check the site out: http://aquarius.ae/

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   Resilience? I think resilience is the ability to get up after you fall, to succeed and recover after failure, to get strong after you were very weak.. Could you be resilient? Are you going to sit there and stare at the time when things aren't going right? Or are you going to stand up for yourself and do something about it? Resilience is a matter of choice.. To win or to lose.. it's all your choice.. YOU CHOSE!


   Resilience is positivity. Keep your head high, keep your expectations high, everything is possible! You'r able to do anything.. I'm able to do anything.. I keep telling myself  "I CAN DO IT! I CAN DO IT!"..Try it.. Collect some positive energy and believe in yourself then you're good to go! Positivity could win any case!

   Resilience is strength. You should be vulnerable, you should be capable of being hurt, you should be able to collect your heart and move on after it had been broken into pieces. Be strong, take risks and make commitments, those experiences teach you in the end so never be afraid.. Don't be afraid of failure, face your fears, it only makes you stronger!

"If people didn't take risks, we'd still think the Earth was flat. Face up your fears and put yourself out there with these insights" --Coach Donna Needs.


   Resilience is also responsibility. Learn to be responsible, learn to be a leader. You're responsible for every step you take.. If something goes wrong in your life.. don't go search for someone to throw the blame on, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE, you have to fix your own mistakes.. And when you've accomplished something by yourself you could go tell everyone "I DID IT!"

"You can only be truly resilient when you own up to the part you have played and take responsibility for your failures as well as your successes" --Coach Donna Needs
   
   Work on your resilience.. GET UP and DO SOMETHING!!!



*FsF



Friday, August 16, 2013

GoodByes

  
 Today, I want to share with you how much I've encountered goodbyes. I'm not going to write down ALL my stories so the topic doesn't get boring..

   Goodbyes are never too easy, but you've got to know.. no one or nothing stays forever, don't hold on too tight so you don't get broken when things don't turn out the way you want them to be.. when you loose someone really special and really close to you.. when you realize they're the only thing you ever needed.. but now that they're gone you've got to learn how to get over it and move on..


   I remember my childhood, how it was so fun and everything was funny, and I never cried unless I fell and hurt myself, but then I'd eventually forget about it the other day.. even though the scar didn't fade away yet.

I woke up every morning knowing that everything is going to be good and that all I'm going to do is play all day. I never sat there thinking of what I have and what I don't, because every time I wanted something I'd go running to mama and she'd get me that doll I saw on TV or that bicycle I saw on the kids magazine..

     I'm not saying everything was great when I was a kid.. I lost my mom when I was only 8.. and that was the first and hardest goodbye I encountered, even though I was only 8, I knew that she'd never come back again but I never knew how hard that will be.. I miss her more everyday, but life goes on.. And I made myself believe that she's always around me and that even though I don't see her.. my heart does.

"Its so hard to be strong when you're missing someone so long" --Laura Pausini


   After that I lived life so careless and free.. I just kept in mind that nothing stays forever, and I didn't care when people told me they loved me and cared about me.. until I actually needed someone to love me and care about me. Then I finally stopped pushing people away, I felt really happy and they stayed beside me for a very long time. I loved them, I depended on them on few things, and when I got used to them.. they left. I said GOODBYE.


   Goodbyes are not that bad.. people come and go.. and if the ones I loved didn't leave, I could have never become this strong. Yes it was very hard but I'm happy now and after all those goodbyes I learned that there are good people and there are bad, some leave you for your own good and others leave you because they'd been using you. 


The goods in goodbyes are the lessons you learn!

*FsF


Thursday, August 15, 2013

About Me



My Name is Fatma
I Live in Dubai
I came to this life in 1997
I have attended Al Anwar kindergarden 
Then Moved to Al Mawakeb School (2003-2009)
Then Gradtuated from Dubai National School (2009-2014)
And now, I'm attending Sheikh Zayed University
I have started this blog to write about some of my personal experiences and enshallah I'll be posting about other subjects too.
I Love to write and I hope I could one day become a Journalist and accomplish so much in my life that I'd fill this page with all my accomplishments.
BUT HEY WELCOME TO MY WORLD!


*FsF